or did you mean "can you justify to yourself adjusting...?"
I like the second interpretion best because I think that is
the reflective question that she answered no to, and you (at least
you, today) would answer yes to.
David McFadzean wrote
>But... maybe we all go through life with varying amounts of self-deceit
>and the trick is really to minimize the level even though it may be
>impossible to reduce it to zero.
I think Dave that you do not accept that there will ever be
an occaision where adjusting your context, even if it doesnt fit
reality will ever make you feel better.
This makes me want to ask you this hypothetical question.
If it were True that adjusting your context, even if it didnt match
reality, caused you to have a better experience of life, caused you
to feel better..... would you?
Tony Hindle.